All about perfect parenting

Being a parent is a wonderful feeling and experience but to be a perfect parent we should know the nitty-gritty’s of perfect parenting so that we can make our children feel valued and on the other hand teach them how to lead a great life so that they themselves grow to be caring and loving parents.

Parenting tips to be the best Mom or Dad in the World

  1. Love your children and keep encouraging and appreciating them for their little achievements or good deeds as this will help them to inculcate a positive set of mind. Let your kids feel proud of their accomplishments as this will help them boost their self-confidence. Remember to make them understand properly that for which deed or task they are being appreciated.
  2. Tell your children often that how much you love them so that they feel your love and affection towards them and know how much you care about them. Actions speak more than words; a warm hug will be a great addition when you express your love.
  3. Love your kids unconditionally; don’t force them to be who you think they should be in order to earn your love.
  4. Avoid comparing your children to others, especially siblings. Each child is individual and special. A comparison can develop a sense of rivalry. Nurture a loving relationship, not a competitive one.
  5. Avoid preferential treatment. If your children are quarreling or have done something wrong, don’t choose sides, but be unbiased and impartial.
  6. Listen to your children. It’s important that your communication with your children goes both ways. You shouldn’t just be there to pass orders. Listen to their problems and try to provide an effective solution.
  7. Attend school functions and Parent-Teacher Meet to evaluate your child’s development and to make them feel that you are deeply involved as a parent is all his activities.
  8. If you have done or said something wrong, you should apologize to your children, letting them know that you’ve made a mistake. If you don’t apologize they are chances that your kids will find this as a normal behavior and will adopt it too.
  9. Love your spouse as any differences between parents can ruin the mind and overall development of a child. Cultivate love not fear for your home. Always try to set an example for your children so that in future they can also love and respect their spouse and have a great family life.
  10. Never humiliate your child in public as this can have a very negative impact on his mind.
  11. Encourage them to get involved in extra-curricular and not only studies for overall development.
  12. Be a good role model for your kids and help them not only to be a caring and loving parent but sensible adult citizens too.
  13. Involve your kids in deeds of charity so that they can understand its importance and understand why they should keep helping others, especially the unprivileged.
  14. Respect your child’s privacy. Respect their privacy as you would want them to respect yours.
  15. Encourage your children to have a healthy lifestyle. Focus on a healthy diet and assure your children get plenty of exercises, and sufficient rest too.
  16. Avoid Alcohol, drugs, especially smoking as apart from being unhealthy they also pose a risk of putting negative influence on your kids and you would not like that they adopt these bad habits.

Remember that children grow fast and that they’ll be on their own before you know it; so don’t waste time adopt these parenting techniques today as what you sow is what you reap.